There is a kind of seeker who is allergic to vibes — who hears an inspiring talk and immediately wants the citation. If your first instinct, on meeting a beautiful idea, is to ask where does it say that, this house was built for you. Not vibes. Sources.
Not vibes. Sources.
Seriousness deserves structure
Spiritual seriousness deserves textual structure. An idea that cannot point to a source is not thereby false, but it is unanchored — and an unanchored tradition drifts into whatever the speaker happens to be charismatic about.
Stop consuming charisma. Start entering sources: the pasuk, the Gemara, the Rishon, the chain that actually carries the claim.
Citations, categories, clarity
What you want is not more inspiration but more apparatus — citations you can check, categories that separate Torah from drash from opinion, and the clarity of knowing which is which. That is not coldness. It is respect for the text.
Bring the claim that is nagging you, and let us go find where it says that — and where it does not — and then carry the hard remainder to a teacher who can read it with you.