There is a quiet difference between two kinds of people. One fits learning into whatever gaps the week leaves behind. The other lets the learning decide where the gaps fall.
You are trying to become the second kind. That is not a matter of willpower. It is a matter of architecture.
You do not find time for what matters. You build the week so the time is already there.
Order is a form of honor
When you place your learning first and let the rest of the week arrange itself around it, you are saying something — to yourself, and about the thing you are learning. You are saying it is load-bearing. That the week leans on it, not the reverse.
The Jewish week already has a deep order built into it, a rhythm the tradition has carried for a very long time. To set a fixed time for Torah inside that order is not to invent something new. It is to join something old.
An ordered week is not a rigid one. It is a week that knows what it is for.
The frame, then the rooms
Start with the frame — the times that will not move. Then let the rest of life furnish the rooms inside it. Most people do this backwards, scattering the furniture and then wondering why there is no room left for the thing they most wanted.
Which times become your frame, how they sit with your obligations to family and work and community — that is yours to settle in conversation with a living teacher, not a feed. We can only tell you the principle: build the week around the learning, and the learning will begin to build you.