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Reading · 5 November 2024

Anchors, Not Resolutions

Resolutions float on motivation. Anchors hold when the motivation drains away.


You have made resolutions before. Most people have a small graveyard of them. They were sincere. They simply had nothing to hold onto.

A resolution floats on motivation — and motivation drains, reliably, by the second week. What you need instead is an anchor: a learning fixed to something the day already does whether you feel like it or not.

Do not resolve to learn more. Tie the learning to something the day already does.

Tie it to a fixed point

The day is full of immovable moments — the meal that comes, the morning that begins, the quiet after the house goes to sleep. Tie your learning to one of these, and it borrows the day's own gravity.

This is part of the wisdom in the tradition's fixed times for Torah. A time that is set does not depend on your enthusiasm to survive. It is anchored to the order of the day itself, and so it holds when you, inevitably, waver.

An anchored practice does not need you to feel strong. It needs you only to show up to a place that is already there.

Choosing the anchor well

Choose an anchor that is stable in your particular life — not the one that sounds most pious, but the one that actually recurs. A weak anchor in a busy hour will fail you. A strong anchor in a quiet one will carry you for years.

Which fixed points are right for you, how they fit your duties and your household, what the tradition asks of those times — these belong to a conversation with a living teacher who can see the real shape of your days. Our counsel is only this: stop making resolutions that float, and start setting anchors that hold.


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